Sunday, December 28, 2014

RIP Uncle Frank Cooley 12/28/2014

 
If you read through my Colorado Bucket Trip story, when we left Denver on 9/5, we headed straight to Grand Junction to see my Aunt Geneva and Uncle Frank as well as cousin Frank and wife Margie.  It had been almost seven years since Kim and I had last seen Frank and Geneva on our 20th wedding anniversary road trip through Ohio in 2007, which started in Cincinnati with a visit with them and mom and Frank's sister Elizabeth before we headed to Akron for the Football Hall of Fame and then to Cleveland to see Don and Helen.

Cousin Loraine called this afternoon to let us know that Uncle Frank passed away today after having contracted the flu.  He was very weak and had been in the hospice at the VA Hospital in Grand Junction for many months.  Margie emailed and reported that he passed peacefully around 1:30 this afternoon and that both Frank and Geneva were there with him.  Our thoughts and prayers have been with them daily, and tonight I am praying harder for wife Geneva, sister Elizabeth, son Frank, daughter Loraine, and daughter in law Margie.

I'm very glad that we were able to see Uncle Frank this fall and spend some time talking and laughing with him and Aunt Geneva as well as Frank and Margie.  Although Uncle Frank's body was failing him his mind, wit, and humor were still very sharp and evident and he cracked us all up with his word play and jokes.  He was a lifelong Cincinnati Reds and Bengals fan and loved to talk sports.

Our thoughts and prayers are with Frank's family.  We love you and will miss you, Uncle Frank.

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

ALS Clinic #3 - December 10, 2014

Today was a long and exhausting day.  Kim and I got up at 5:30 this morning and were at Hershey Med Center Neurology at 8AM for my third quarterly ALS Clinic.  Fortunately the snow passed us by last night.  There was some good news and some not so good news.

My Forced Vital Capacity score was 84, down from 89 in September and 96 in May.  To be honest, I expected it to be worse because of the difficulty I have breathing at night, which is related to my chronic sinus condition.  While it was disappointing that it went down, I am happy that it wasn't worse.

The reflex tests were exaggerated indicating nerve and muscle damage.  Occupational therapy evaluated my arm and hand strength.  My right hand (dominant) grip strength was about 60 pounds, compared to 80 pounds for my left hand.  That explains why my handwriting is getting worse, it takes me longer to do almost everything, why I have some trouble shaving in the morning, have trouble opening things, and am dropping things frequently.  My weight was down several pounds also, which they have been cautioning me about.  It is hard to eat when I am at work, and it takes me a long time to eat a large dinner - about 45 minutes.

They didn't find a major loss of strength in my legs, but they feel very spastic to me and I cannot walk as smoothly or as quickly as I used to.  When they tested my ankles they found some catching, which may explain part of my walking slowdown.  However, I can still do 30 minutes on the treadmill without getting out of breath or feeling like I am going to fall, just at a slower speed than I used to walk.

The good news - swallow is still good, not much change since September.  Surprised everyone since my speech is completely gone for all practical purposes.  My blood pressure was good.  The physical therapist walked me down to the PT room observing me as I walked and then had me walk up and down 4 steps 3 times and didn't notice any balance, strength, or wobbliness issues on the steps or on the walk down the hall to and back from PT.  She did say that I walked with my head forward, but we think that has been the case for a while.  She suggested I should work on my posture and try to get my keyboard and computer screen raised more to my eye level to keep my head up.

The push is on for me to agree to let them install a PEG feeding tube to ensure that I am getting enough food and fluids and to help prevent me from aspirating food into my lungs.  The feeding tube would be directly inserted into my stomach and it would be fairly inconspicuous, although it might be noticeable if I wear a tight shirt.  The doctors, nurses, and nutritionist indicated it wouldn't limit my ability to travel or do any physical activities.  They suggested that I might want to do this sooner rather than later.

We also talked about a diaphragm pacer that may help me long term before I would need to use a non-invasive ventilation system such as a BiPAP.  Can often delay the onset of using an NIV by a year.  The diaphragm pacer system requires an external power pack that must be carried everywhere, which may be more limiting in terms of travel and normal activities.

Both devices could be installed at the same time on at outpatient basis.  Lots to think about and I am not in a hurry to make a decision on such important topics.

I also asked to be tested for mercury toxicity, and Dr. Simmons agreed to write the lab order for me, although he indicated that he didn't feel that we would find anything.  My first symptoms started a week after I received my flu shot last year.  I didn't realize that most flu shots contain Thimerosal, which is a preservative that has organic mercury in it. 

I have been severely grinding my teeth for more than 6 years, and I have a lot of large amalgam fillings in my molars.  I knew amalgam had mercury in it, but I was very surprised to learn recently that amalgam contains 50% mercury!  Mercury is one of the most toxic substances to the human body, and can cause sinus issues and brain and motor neuron damage.  My sinuses and gag reflex have gotten worse every year that I have been grinding my teeth at night.  I have several mouth guards, but my terrible gag reflex means that I often cannot tolerate one in my mouth at night.

These days, I grind my teeth 24x7 due to the muscle spasms in my face and jaws, and I can feel my fillings disintegrating, which means that I am ingesting more mercury into my body in addition to the mercury vapors that leach from the fillings.  Since the teeth are so close to the brain, sinuses, and eyes, amalgam fillings can cause significant bodily damage.  I am anxious for the tests and to see what the results are.  I am educating myself on amalgam mercury toxicity and treatments.

I gave three vials of blood for two ALS research projects today.  Heidi had trouble finding a vein in my right arm so we tried my left arm and eventually found a vein, but it came out as a slow drip, and filling 3 vials took more than 10 minutes.

We finally got out of the ALS clinic around 12:30 and headed to Panera's for a bite of lunch before driving over to Nyes Road for my annual dermatology checkup at the Hershey Med offices at 2PM.  No major issues again this year, but about a dozen sun damage places frozen off my face and head.  Finally got home around 3:30.  Kim and I were both exhausted!

The day was emotionally and physically draining, but all in all it was a pretty good clinic report.  So it's early to bed tonight after a full day missed from work and back to the office and PA Turnpike tomorrow.

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Thanksgiving Update

Kim and I drove down to Charlotte to brother Chuck's house to spend Thanksgiving with Chuck, Leigh, Elijah, Benjamin, Amelia, mom Margaret, and dad Don.  Dad flew up from Pensacola.  Unfortunately his wife Helen was not able to join us and Forest couldn't get any time off to join us from Denver.

We had planned to leave early Wednesday morning but with the forecast for an East Coast winter storm, we decided to leave Tuesday afternoon after working a partial day.  Traffic was very heavy and we didn't get to our motel in Roanoke, VA until 5+ hours after we left Mechanicsburg.  It was a long drive after work and in the dark, but we made it.  We were both exhausted by the time we got there. 

We slept in the next morning thinking it would be an easy 3 hour drive to Charlotte, but the winter storm caught up with us and we drove through blinding snow for 3 hours before losing enough elevation to leave the storm behind us.  There were numerous wrecks and 8 deer ran across the road just in front of us during the snowstorm.  It took us a total of 5 hours to get to Charlotte around 3PM.

Mom and the kids were there when we arrived. We passed Leigh on her way to pick up dad at the airport.  Chuck got off work and was home around 6pm, so we could celebrate being together again.  Amelia was kind enough to allow us to sleep in her bedroom, and Elijah and Benjamin gave theirs up for dad.

Chuck brined a 25 pound turkey, and it was delicious!  We had quite a spread for Thanksgiving with Turkey, Ham, candied sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, green bean casserole, dressing, cranberry sauce and cranberry relish.




We had a short but very nice visit with everyone!   I communicated using my iPad and Proloquo4text software so that people could understand me.  On Friday we drove over to see Chuck's optometry practice and the entire family decorated their Christmas tree in the evening after dinner. We missed Forest and Helen but hope to see them in the next few months.  Forest has a week off at the beginning of March, so we'll see what we can figure out.






Saturday morning we left Chuck's around 9:30 for the long drive home.  Lots of traffic but better weather this time, and it took us about 9 hours overall.  A long day, but we were very glad to be home and sleeping in our king size bed and to have a day to recover before heading back to work!